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    Monday, June 29, 2009

    In Preparation for July 4th

    Every year I prepare an Itunes playlist for July 4th. I love this holiday. For me it's a time for family and friends, the parade and carnival, grilling out, and enjoying the fireworks. It's also a time to be thankful for all the guys and ladies who have served in the name of freedom. I know a ton of them and meet more every day, so to Charlie Barnett, Toby Prince, Ron Duke, Bob Boyer, Morrell Willaims, Robert Wadley, Nathan Bowen, Virgil Hughes, Ron Abernathy, James Porter, the Moser men, Greg Bellah, and the tons of other guys and ladies who I know and love these are your songs for the Fourth...songs about war and loss and protest and freedom and sacrifice and the summertime freedom we enjoy because of your service...feel free to add others...and thank you...

    America- Neil Diamond
    Born in the USA- The Boss
    The Hands that Built America- U2
    American Pie- Don Mclean
    Star Spangled Banner- Jimi Hendrix
    8th of November- Big and Rich
    The Way It Is- Bruce Hornsby
    American Girl- Tom Petty
    Fortunate Son- CCR
    Boys of Summer- Don Henley
    Pink House and R.O.C.K. in the USA- John Mellencamp
    Summertime- Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince
    American Land- The Boss

    Saturday, June 27, 2009

    Coming Out Swinging...

    Passivity kills the soul. Have you ever thought about that? When we are passive we sit idly and wait for something to happen TO us so we can react. I am thankful I do not serve a passive God. If God was passive, He would have sit idly by and waited for a reason to create the universe. He would have waited for eternity because He is complete and sufficient in Himself, with no need of others. So God creates. He is active. And when sin enters the world, God once again goes on the offensive. He sets in motion, guides, and works in a plan for our redemption. And when the plan is complete, and Jesus is resurrected, God still does not sit idly by. He continues to work to reveal His love and grace to hearts of sinful, fallen children of wrath. God always comes out swinging.

    What does your life look like? Do you sit idly by and wait for things to happen, to react, to counterpunch? Or do you come out swinging? This week at Journey Fellowship Church we take a fresh look at what life looks like when we have a Vision to come out of our bunkers and head into the community to make an impact. We are taking a fresh look at what it means to be the church rather than to meet as the church. I am excited to have Phill Larsen join me in teaching this week. Phill has a passion for ministry outside the walls of the church. He will bring the Word hardcore on Sunday.

    So what's your life look like right now? Are you passive waiting to react or are you coming out swinging? My prayer is that we will begin to punch some holes in enemy territory with a passion for action like our amazing God.

    May His Kingdom Advance...

    Quick Personal Notes:

    Just spent 2 amazing weeks at Falls Creek speaking to students from FBC-Allen and FBC-Elk City...awesome times

    My wife and kids blessed my socks off on Dad's Day...steaks, pictures, and good family time

    Still counting the days to U2 in October

    Check out Journey's reworked website at jfokc.com

    Pray for JFC students going to camp on Monday and their sponsors Big Chris and Tabitha

    Let the Vision grab you!

    Saturday, June 20, 2009

    Father's Day Playlist

    Music is a huge part of my life. I love escaping into a good song to either echo or improve my mood. I have a playlist in my ipod for almost every occasion: Memorial Day, 4th of July, Summer Kickoff, lake playlists for accountability retreat, date night, going to school songs for Annalise, and on and on. I even have the official Father's Day playlist. Here it is:

    Takin' Care of Business- Bachman Turner Overdrive
    Gory Days- Bruce Springsteen
    American Man- Velvet Revolver
    Jesus Walks (Remix)- Kanye with Common and Ma$e
    Ain't Nothin' Wring With That- Robert Randolph and the Family Band
    Freedom Fighter- Creed
    Fortunate Son- CCR
    Stand By Me- Ben E. King
    Lord Give Me a Sign- DMX
    Worker's Song- Dropkick Murphys
    Ruin Me- Jeff Johnson
    Who Says You Can't Go Home- Bon Jovi
    Father Let Me Dedicate- Matt Redman

    What songs would you add? Here's my criteria: It does not have to be directly about being a dad. It has to be a man song (Cinderella and Butterfly Kisses need not apply). It has to be sung by a guy (Whatta Man by Salt n Pepa does not make the cut). Give me some suggestions or post your own playlist for Dad's Day.

    Happy Father's Day to all my bros out there who know how tough it is to be a dad. Watch some golf, cook a steak, do something "mannish," and pray with your family this weekend. There's nothing more manly than a dad who can get on his knees with his family and ask God for His blessing on them. Be the man!

    Thursday, June 18, 2009

    Betrayal...

    The only thing more confusing than betrayal by a close friend is when it is done with silence beforehand and after...when you are left wondering what the heck you did to invite such a heinous violation of loyalty and friendship. Needless to say the final decision on the "sacrament" drama did not go the way I thought it would...more to come later...

    Monday, June 01, 2009

    5 Years Ago...

    5 Years Ago yesterday was my first day as the pastor of Journey Fellowship Church. I do not remember what I did that day. To be honest, if I had known how challenging and draining these last few years would be, I don't know that I would have done it. It would have been easier, more stable, and far more financially lucrative to have simply left the church I was serving and gone on down the food chain to the next big thing. There were offers and there was opportunity, but in the end Amanda and I decided to do something hard and scary, we decided to follow God's leadership and forge something new.

    There are times when it makes me a little bitter. Every friend I had then is driving a nice car, has savings and retirement, and is largely living debt free and happy. They have big youth groups, interns, paid vacations, and lots of older people in their churches who shower them with gifts and perks and "bonuses." And it would be nice to have all of those things.

    But...and there is a but...I would be living a lie. I was not meant for those things. I was meant and called for something different, not greater, just different. And that's why I am writing this tonight, because 5 years ago I did something that I am so thankful that I was asked to do...I planted a church. And it's not just any church, through the past 5 years it has begun to become the place that God dreamed it to be...a place where anyone can walk in, be accepted for who they are, and meet Jesus.

    See that's what God dreamed in me for years, even before I knew it. From the time I was young, I was given the ability to be friends with anyone. Amanda says I can talk to a brick wall. And because of that, God has given me a heart for people, especially people who do not know Jesus. And that is who JFC was built for.

    A church like this does not get started without a ton of people. And I want to take a few minutes to say Thank you to those who have walked with us along the way (and those who have inspired us):

    - to James Lankford who made the mistake of telling me about guys who were planting churches because their churches were broken and they could not bear the thought of people going to hell because of it

    - to Ted Lam and Bo Holland and the CBA who believed enough in the dream to give money and training

    - to FBC Bethany and Charlie Womack- who let us go even though it was at a difficult time and who gave even when there was not much to give

    - to the Kerrs, the Perrines, and the Hopkins who believed enough to come and help us get started and then stuck around

    - to the Koonces and the Busserts who prayed and supported and gave even when it hurt

    - to Mammaw and Grandaddy who bought groceries, gave money, prayed and supported even though it did not make sense

    - to Fila Phill who led worship and set up and slept on my crappy couch just to be a part

    - to all the people who came and stayed a season to help us get started Reg and Judy, Big Mike, Gina G, Lynz, Regina and Cody, the Blooms...and the list could go on

    - to the Hungerfords who led us in worship for many years

    - to the Dynamo folks who rented us space even though we could not guarantee we could make rent

    - to Mark Driscoll, Donald Miller, Mike Yacconelli, Tim Keller, and Ed Stetzer who have provided inspiration and illumination along the way

    - to Mike Janssen and Zac Workun who have been friends along the way who have encouraged and fought and served along with me

    - to Tommy Haines who would not let me throw in the towel and who every week provides me with a place to vent, celebrate and laugh

    - to guys like Craig Smith who have booked me to speak so that I could make some extra cash and always managed to call at just the right time with encouragement and insight

    - to Brad and April and Jay and the crew at FBC-Sulphur who have put their money where their hearts are and have invested in this church

    - to the Huffs who loaned me a car when I had no car and no dollars to buy one and to Merle and Shirley who gave one away that they could have sold

    - to Dan and Patty VZ who gave me a job and helped me to feed my family and make the house payment by keeping me on for 5 years...you have no idea how awesome you guys are

    - to the Abernathy and Curtis families for love and support

    - to my brothers Lok, Young, and Bull- I would have never made it this far without you...

    - to my 3 beautiful girls, daddies angels- I am building a church for you girls- follow Jesus

    - to the only love of my life, my Princess- thank you for saying yes, thank you for being the best mom and wife in the world, and thank you for never losing faith in this journey even when I wanted to

    - most of all to my Jesus- You are the only One I would do this for, and You are the only One who makes this all worth it, thank You for saving a wretch like me and for giving me the chance to play a part in Your kingdom...may the Kingdom advance

    - last of all to the families of Journey Fellowship Church- the crazy band of brothers and sisters who love Jesus more than themselves and who are committed to going where He goes...keep pushing...do not quit...we have only just begun

    5 years is not a long time and yet it is like a lifetime. If you are looking for a place to serve Jesus and leave religion behind, we invite you to come and experience Journey Fellowship Church. We exist to connect people with Jesus, to build strong Families, and to transform a Community. Come and join us on the journey of lifetime with Jesus.

    May His Kingdom Advance...

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